Probably around fifteen. Some partners like to switch around with toys and others like to stay consistent. I had a partner who would beat me until I got used to the sensation of that toy, then switch to something completely different. It was a horribly evil scene.
We couldn’t possibly use all my toys in one scene, though. That would be so overwhelming, haha.
Push her far. Make her truly understand the power you have over her. Make her beg for mercy every time.
Some days I feel really torn between “kink has amazing potential to create transcendent psychological, even spiritual, experiences” and “kink turns me way the hell on.”
I mean, not that these have to be mutually exclusive.
"I want to create a scene that shakes me out of shallow intellectualization and forces me to draw upon the unbreakable inner strength at my core. …Also, there should be butt stuff."